Black Sun

    Healing Romantic Relationships

    8-Week Course

    Course Overview

    Evidence-based relationship healing

    This comprehensive 8-week course combines insights from attachment theory, the Gottman Method, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help you heal and strengthen your romantic relationship. Based on over 40 years of research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.

    40-50 hours total
    Intermediate
    Research-backed

    Course Weeks

    Week 1
    5-7 hours of content

    Understanding Attachment Styles

    Overview

    Discover how your early childhood experiences shaped your attachment style and how it affects your romantic relationships. Based on the groundbreaking work of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, attachment theory explains why we behave the way we do in close relationships.

    Key Topics

    • •The four attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Disorganized
    • •How childhood experiences create attachment patterns
    • •Recognizing your own attachment behaviors
    • •Understanding your partner's attachment style
    • •The anxious-avoidant trap and how to break free

    Exercises & Practices

    • ✓Complete an attachment style assessment questionnaire
    • ✓Journal about your earliest memories of seeking comfort
    • ✓Identify 3 patterns from past relationships that repeat
    • ✓Discuss attachment styles with your partner (if applicable)

    Recommended Resources

    • Book: "Attached" by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
    • Book: "Hold Me Tight" by Dr. Sue Johnson
    • Research: Bowlby's Attachment Theory framework

    Important Considerations

    • • This course is most effective when both partners participate, but individual work can create meaningful change.
    • • If your relationship involves abuse, please seek professional support rather than self-guided work.
    • • Consider working with a couples therapist alongside this course for deeper support.
    • • Healing takes time - be patient with yourself and the process.