What to do: For each area, write how trauma affected your beliefs, then use the challenging questions to develop balanced views.
1. Safety
Unbalanced: "The world is completely dangerous. I'm never safe."
Balanced: "Some situations are unsafe, but I can learn to assess risk. I have survived and can take reasonable precautions."
2. Trust
Unbalanced: "I can never trust anyone again."
Balanced: "Some people are untrustworthy, and some are trustworthy. I can learn to assess trustworthiness over time."
3. Power/Control
Unbalanced: "I'm completely helpless and have no control."
Balanced: "Some things are beyond my control, but I have influence over many aspects of my life."
4. Self-Worth
Unbalanced: "I'm damaged, worthless, and unlovable."
Balanced: "What happened to me doesn't define my worth. I have value as a person."
5. Intimacy
Unbalanced: "I can never be close to anyone. Intimacy is always dangerous."
Balanced: "I can develop closeness with people who prove trustworthy, at my own pace."