Helpful mindset:
• Problems are normal – Everyone has them; they're part of life
• Problems are solvable – Maybe not perfectly, but usually improvable
• I can cope – Even if solutions are imperfect, I can handle outcomes
• Stop and think – Impulsive reactions usually make things worse
• Feelings are clues – Negative emotions often signal a problem to solve
Unhelpful patterns to watch:
•Avoiding thinking about problems
•Impulsive reactions without thinking
•Catastrophizing or giving up
•Waiting for problems to solve themselves